Caroline's South African Adventures

Snapshots of my life and experiences in KwaZulu Natal. Welcome to South Africa!

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

‘I’m not sick!’

One of the joys of being here is the crèche. Every morning HJ and I pray together in the new prayer/counselling room at 7am and finish just in time for me to check in with my little friends at breakfast. We have up to 8 little people in the crèche (depending on when some of the workers are around as their kids take part too) and they are all precious.
Recently, one of them was really ill and spent several days withdrawn and generally feeling very sorry for herself. I tried to comfort her but she wasn’t in the mood for anything. However, since she’s recovered, every morning when I go to say hi, she proudly exclaims to me in a loud and triumphant voice ‘Me, I’m not sick!’ This evening they all decided to tell me this, one by one… pray with me that they would continue to shout this out and to be as happy and healthy as they currently are!

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Jane's visit - Saturday 21st Oct


Jane’s visit – my first guest!

It was fantastic to have Jane, one of my Leamington ex-housemates, visit on Saturday. She’s been in PMB working on a church project for 2 weeks. She brought some gifts for the crèche children, although we didn’t get to give it to them until Sunday morning before breakfast when they were up and had some energy. Saturday was so hot that they were all wilting!
Well, for ‘some’ energy, read ‘A LOT OF ENERGY’. They were overjoyed at the dolls and toy cars. One of our boys screamed with delight when Jane gave him a car, ran round in circles and flung himself onto a chair beaming with delight, it was magical!
The others leapt all over Jane (which I’m sure she loved!) and several non-crèche kids thought they’d get in on the action too! As we were setting off for church, I asked J if we’d forgotten anything and she replied ‘a couple of the orphans…’ ;-)

I took 5 of our older boys to I-LIFE on Sunday night at church, a service for youth and students. They loved being in my car instead of the usual vehicles (as mine is top of the range with electric windows, loud stereo and leather seats! Top of the range for 1995 that is!!!) We arrived to a power-cut but that was fixed just at the moment we decided to stop sitting around and start praising to candlelight. They enjoyed the music, dancing, singing and talk. I think they also enjoyed meeting some of the others who go there, in particular some of the girls…. Hmm. ;-)

The church we’ve settled on going to is called Pietermaritzburg Christian Fellowship and it’s a rare-ish church in that it really is multi-cultural and multi-racial. We sing in Zulu, Afrikaans, English and in many other of the dialects of S.Africa. A lot of churches here end up being either white or zulu churches with little cross-over so it’s really refreshing to find one that is committed to growing together. It’s a great church, even if I can’t go every week.

Are cattle deaf?

It’s been a rollercoaster of a week. Thank you for all you lovely people who read my blog last Monday and instantly prayed for me (you know who you are!) as I had such an amazing sense of well-being, peace and joy around lunch-time that carried me through.
The week turned out to be very busy as well as riding the waves of emotions, probably part and parcel of being in a foreign country clubbed together with a fairly large dose of spiritual attack at my weakest points. Here’s a summary :

On Tuesday I visited one of our preschools in the valley, which was quite peaceful actually, despite there being 68 kids there! We had a meeting with a social worker who arrived to tell us she wasn’t coming, and then left. Welcome to Africa!
Tuesday also started me on a train of thought about whether cows are deaf. A small herd of them decided to cross the road in front of my car and stopped, completely blocking the road. They seemed impervious to my car horn. These aren’t little cows either, I don’t think my car would come off too well in a cow-road rage incident so need to tread carefully. This was by the preschool, which is situated in the grounds of a massive abattoir. If I was a cow, I wouldn’t be crossing the road anywhere near that place, I’d be running in the opposite direction and fast!
On Wednesday I had a meeting with a funder from Holland in a fabulous guest house in Durban (www.164.co.za), where I came across the only swimming pool I’ve had any desire to dive into as of yet in S.Africa. I’ll be returning there for a weekend away at some point...
Thursday afternoon had me driving round the Valley in thick fog looking for the place where I was supposed to be attending a forum. I happened to be out just as schools were emptying out and, in addition to the fog and speed-bumps, I had to manoeuvre round hordes of kids on either side of the road. But I got there eventually! Hairpin bends in the fog are not that much fun though…
Friday saw me once again back in Jo’burg, which was a very productive meeting and good to meet with the rest of the people in one of our funding partnerships. A Dutch organisation has brought 10 S.African NGO’s together to do some work and we are one of them, but most of the meetings are in Jo’burg (hence the fact that I know have more friends there than in Durban!)
A day in Jo’burg is tiring enough, but add on an unexpected storm to wipe out Air traffic control at JHB and it becomes even more exhausting… there were more planes than they knew what to do with, our bus, when we eventually came to board, drove us round the whole airfield to find the plane. The pilot then announced that the caterers were on strike too so no food… it was interesting to note, however, that no-one complained at all, in fact people seemed to find it all rather amusing (if only us Brits could learn from that laid-backness, life might be so much nicer!) I used my delay time productively and slept for the extra 2 and half hours on the plane. Ironically, it would have been quicker to drive home on this occasion. I finally made it back to GGA at 1.30am Sat morning having set out from there at 5.15am! So it’s not all fun and games… ;-)

Monday, October 16, 2006

new official address

I've now set up a Gmail account so if people want to contact me to do with work they can:

education.gga@gmail.com

easy.

Please pray for me right now as everything here is rather overwhelming. It sometimes feels that I am doing the job of about 5 different people and it's a long hard path. My usual reaction when I have too much to do is to shut down and not be able to focus on anything. I need to prioritise but it's hard to know what to prioritise right now as everything seems important.
Pray for God's priorities to become clear and for everyone who works here as we are in the middle of transition right now, both with moving round offices and also with staff changeovers. We really need some more excellent people to come and work here, there is a need for several key workers and they have to come from somewhere!
Maybe it's you or you know someone who'd love to come and help run an AIDS orphans and vulnerable children project in South Africa....

Saturday, October 14, 2006

Not your average playground



The highlight of Saturday morning’s playground duty was the discovery of this chameleon which happened to fall out of a tree. A group of about 8 boys put it into a box with some leaves (picture 2) to observe it carefully. It was amazing!
There is something incredible about creation, and the chameleon is one of God’s special tricks. The 2 pictures are of the same creature. It really did change its skin patterns and colour before our very eyes! These are survival techniques at their finest.
We let it run along a wall (picture 1) and it has the oddest way of walking, like it’s hesitant at every step and has to double take. Its eyes are constantly looking all around.
The boys took it to a tree nearby and set it free and in under a minute it had blended in with the green leaves and was gone. It was a completely beautiful colour. Amazing!
I was also amazed at the way the children handled it. Given the excitement with which they set about attacking snakes, it was great to witness a big contrast. The boys were so gentle and quiet with it, which was brilliant.
About an hour later, however, the same group of boys all leapt out of the swimming pool in terror at the sighting of little frog in the water! Weird what they are afraid of! I had a very similar frog in my kitchen the other evening. Having failed to catch it before it disappeared behind my cupboard, I resolved to let it live in peace and to give it a name, which somehow takes away the scariness of the thought of it in my house… So, Bernard the frog might be the same one who decided to go swimming today, although he’d need to be fit, it’s a fair walk down to the pool!

PS: apparently, I’ve just found out, the Zulus are afraid of frogs because they are often followed by snakes…

Monday, October 09, 2006

I'm still here...


I’m still here…

No, I’ve not gone AWOL. I am still here, promise.

Last week was HECTIC… Heather R is now in the UK and there was lots to discuss before she left so that took up most of my time. And then on Friday the internet connections here decided that they were having the day off so I couldn’t even connect! I guess that’s one of the idiosyncrasies of living on top of a hill in Africa…

Have just returned from a relaxing weekend off, HJ and I escaped to the Indian Ocean and stayed at a really nice backpackers in Umhlanga, just North of Durban, highly recommended if you are ever that way… The best bit was just getting away and relaxing and being able to enjoy a bath (as we only have showers here!) We had views over the ocean and it was mesmerising to watch the powerful waves crashing against the shore. It made me think about the power of the Ocean, and also quite sombre to think that this same ocean is the one that produced the Tsunami not so long ago…

The weather wasn’t brilliant but we managed to visit Umhlanga Rocks and enjoyed walking along the beach and exploring the rock pools. I took some ‘arty photos’ of rocks… On Sunday we drove home via a very ‘shabby chic’ beach area in Durban, wandering through a multi-ethnic market where Zulu beadwork was on sale next to Indian belly dancing outfits with second-hand books in between. It was great to admire the intricate detail of the beadwork and to chat to the ladies who made it. I networked a bit too, chatting to a young guy who was selling some beautiful traditional Zulu scene paintings. He could be a great person to do a workshop with some of our children here or in the valley, encouraging them to build on their culture, to produce items that can be sold to make money for themselves and their families. Wherever we go, we talk about GGA and it’s amazing how many people want more info or offer to help in someway. This is networking at its best!

Have also found a fantastic church in Pietermaritzburg, where I think we’ll probably stay. We only went to the evening Youth event so far but it’s very multicultural and we had a great time praising God in Zulu, Sotho and English! Feeling positive about it and am now ready to face what could be a very busy week.

For anyone who has emailed me and I haven’t replied, I will. I’m doing well and really feeling at home here. Even the bugs don’t bother me, have set roach traps all round my kitchen. It’s funny but the majority of bugs I find in my house are already on their backs, but still alive! Does anyone know why that could be? Answers on a postcard.. J

(the photo was taken on Durban beach, some guys were doing sand sculptures and this one caught my eye. Some people are SO talented!)

Monday, October 02, 2006

Choir in a combi - the picture!

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Choir in a combi

My Valley experiences have begun...

On Saturday I drove the choir to perform at a High School Anniversary Function down in the Valley. I’d hoped my introduction to the Valley would have been with lots of volunteers on a food drop or something, but instead I found myself alone driving a combi-ful of teenagers up and down steep and winding mountain roads, across rivers and fords and through some of the most breathtakingly beautiful countryside I have ever seen in my entire life.
As you make the descent into the area called Kwa Ximba, you round a bend and the whole valley opens up before you, lush and green with rondavels and shacks dotted all over the hillsides. I was overwhelmed by the sheer size of the valleys and the fact that so many people live here in abject poverty. I was frustrated as I wanted to stop the van and take so many pictures, talk to people and get to see further into their lives here, but I couldn’t.
We passed people walking, people sitting at the side of the road, cows and goats just wandering along, and at one point a boy carrying a massive chicken. In the morning it was already hot but in the early evening for the return journey we passed so many people and especially children.
I think that’s when the reality of this place started to hit. Anywhere else and you might think these children were playing outside in the evening sunshine whilst their parents are at home. But the reality is that for the majority of these kids, this is it. There are no parents. There are children, older people and a few people aged in between, but the majority of those are dead, not at home. As we drove past, because the combi has ‘GGA’ written on it and many families in this valley are supported by the food drop programme, some children waved hello. I wanted to stop and talk to them, there is something particularly heartbreaking about younger children, who are perhaps under 10 years old, sitting by the side of the road. It’s the younger ones who get me every time. I think it’s their vulnerability and innocence which has probably already been abused.

It was a truly amazing introduction to the valleys in which I shall be spending a lot of time over the next few years. I am taking over the administration of the pre-schools. We have 5 in these valleys and that’s all I can tell you for the moment as I still need to meet with the current administrator before she leaves. Educating these children will give them the keys to get out of poverty and to live a life away from crime, giving them options other than becoming street children. It’s a hard job, but little by little lives are already being changed through it. There is always hope.

The choir had been invited to perform at this school function. Being the only white person in a group of probably 2500 Zulus it was an interesting place to be, but I’d been given a ‘VIP’ pass when I arrived, which meant lots of cool drinks, a delicious meal on a real plate (instead of throwaway cartons that everyone else got) and … most importantly of all in the valleys, use of the VIP toilet!
People stared at me, and then ignored me, which didn’t really bother me. However, the novelty had worn off by 3 hours in to the mammoth 5 hour speeches ceremony, ENTIRELY in Zulu. Having never been anywhere before where I couldn’t speak or understand the language, this really threw me. I was having a culture shock moment. I didn’t know if it was culturally inappropriate to eat whilst listening (no-one else was, but a lot of cans of fizzy drinks were being consumed), so I managed to sneakily eat my m&ms and then more daringly, a whole ham and philedelphia sandwich (nicely melted by the heat – delicious!) without anyone twitching. Result.
A mobile phone near me went off repeatedly and I was starting to get really irritated and also curious as to why no-one was reacting. Then I realised it was in a bag of one of my choir members that I was minding and so technically it was ME ringing! Yet no-one complained, thankfully.
I had the schedule and had calculated that the speeches would last 5 hours. I amused myself by recalculating the timings, given that we’d already started 3 hours later than scheduled and that several people who were down to speak hadn’t turned up. Then the former and founding principal of the school got up to speak, imagine the actor James Earl Jones and you’d not be far off this man for looks and speech, except it was in Zulu. He was extremely proud of his school, as was everyone throughout the day, and proceeded to talk about it for about an hour and a half (well over his allotted time of 25mins, as per the schedule, tsk tsk, anyone would think this is Africa! J) I mention him as it was about 40 minutes into his speech that I officially lost the will to live. I think I may have fallen asleep (again, culturally appropriate? I have no idea). I just wanted to see my people perform and then get out of there! I will never moan at long speech days and prize givings again.
Yet my (im)patience was rewarded when The Young Zulu Warriors did finally have their 5 (yes, after all that, 5mins, 2 songs!!!) on stage and it was SO worth it. They are AMAZING! Really powerful voices, strong harmonies and when the boys started dancing it was like being at a boy band concert as the entire female contingent of the school started screaming with delight. They’ll be touring the UK next June/July – you will NOT want to miss them!
The boys continued to delight their public as we set off home through the sea of people, treating them, and me, to a rendition of another song. Who needs a stereo when you’ve got an entire choir in a combi to entertain?!